Recently there has been lots of news about lack of civic sense shown by Indians living or visiting abroad. On foreign lands from dancing on train tracks, airport termacs to soiling bathrooms and bathrooms in hotels, using swimming pools as community baths wearing "Gamcha" & rubbing soap on body to be videographed, talking loudly in hotel lobbies, making reels at historic places like Great Wall of China, shoplifting and so on.
In Texas, America our Desi (a term used in USA for Persons of Indian origin, often in a deregatory way) siblings dance beating drums on roads inside the suburban communities celebrating Hindu festivals and drying "Papads" on their driveways, raising eyebrows. Not long ago many LUNGI (Indian loincloth which can be removed quickly for multipurpose acts) wearing bros showered a portrait of their favorite movie actor with milk followed by wild dancing lifting and swinging their Lungis for wide eyed onlookers clicking pictures and videos of theie action. The list is long and endless.This behavior of us Desis hasn't gone unnoticed by the countries at the receiving end, followed by swift reactions. There has been reports of restaurants in Vietnam putting up boards proclaiming "Indians not allowed". In Switzerland a hotel displayed a note not to wash utensils in the bathroom tubs after discovering marvelous, curry smelling grease residue on white marble. Most of the Wheel chairs used to board Aircrafts are cornered by Indians who are accused of grossly misusing this facility. I have overheard an Airline staff pushing the wheelchairs passing disparaging remarks against Indians.
Are majority of Indians or person of Indian origin involved in these ? Certainly not. Only a handful of them do so, enough to spoil the name of the entire community. Why are we doing this ? Old habits die hard. A Keonjhar mining mafia in Odisha who not so long ago started from an humble beginning suddenly got rich taking advantage of the iron ore mining boom in the district. Though he built multiple mansions equipped with state of the art bathrooms, he still prefers to shit in open fields. Even on rainy days he ventures out in open to take a huge dump under "MUKTA AKASHA" (open sky) and gets immense pleasure by taking a look at the size of his dump. The bigger the size of the dump, more satisfaction he gets to return home happy.
I am now reminded of the popular Odia proverb,
BATA RE HAGILE NA PADE
DEULA TOLILE NA PADE .
Roughly transliterated..
If you shit by roadside you get fame,
if you build a temple you also get fame."
While most persons of Indian origin depict the "building temple" part, a few of us Desis are exactly busy doing the road side act, occasionally literally. If you put a spoon of wine to a barrel of shit, it is shit. If you put a spoon of shit to a barrel of wine, it is still shit. Unfortunately the image of an entire community gets tarnished due to the act of a few.
We need to a bit careful about displayed our lack of civic sense abroad. Every country isn't lenient to such behaviors and can come down heavily on the recalcitrant folks. Countries like Singapore are formidable and can teach you an unforgettable lesson. For example the government of the successful city-state didn't bother a bit to consider US President Bill Clinton's appeal in 1990s to be lenient to an American citizen who did an act of vandalism on Singapore's soil. They will care a hoot about an Indian tourist. Similarly our next reel taking in China or Russia could land us in a Gulag and our spare parts may never be found.
In the last couple of decades many of us have earned money and grown stinking rich. But our mannerism, civic sense hasn't been able to cope up with our nouveau riche status. This, coupled with sections of the diaspora having a negative perceptions through arrogance, prejudice, and an inflated belief that India has become a global superpower whose citizens deserve special treatment everywhere doesn't help. To add fuel to fire, in the age of social media and reels, such acts of lack of civic sense gets amplified. And it is the silent law abiding Indian diaspora abroad who is paying a price for such obnoxity ! Hopefully it changes for better in future.7